Coronavirus Chronicles – Part 2
Social-distancing: Week 2, Day 243
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Along with other states, Washington’s governor orders statewide stay-at-home mandate. Florida’s governor orders 2-week quarantine for all people arriving from the tri-state area. As a Jersey girl, I can tell you, people will not handle that well. The Summer Olympics, to be held in Tokyo in July, has been postponed. Spain and Italy continue to be hit hard.
As all of this is happening, Trump is talking – against the advice of doctors and healthcare professionals – about ending the quarantines and business shut-downs within weeks, not months, because “our country wasn’t built to be shut down” and he wants America to be “open for business” again.
On the home front, daughter and I continue to get along well. We made cookies to bring to our neighbor kids – leaving on doorsteps, because, social-distancing.
My old friend, the IRS (remember the Colombian affair), reached out during this trying time. My refund will be delayed because of a missing form. I swear, the IRS is like an old boyfriend who dumped you, leaving you in a ruined heap, and every few years, texts you to say he’s in town just to fuck with your emotions. So, much-needed money will be delayed but, a hero came to the rescue. Daughter’s dad – ex-husband number two – texted me last week, “…let me know if you need money to make it through these crazy times”. He’s lending me $1,000.
Meanwhile, banking that my refund would arrive, I had already reached out to the Colombian and told him he could skip sending money in April. Am I crazy? Yes, but not in this regard. He’s been working to make sure he always makes a payment and when I needed extra money to support Daughter during her surgery in October, he stepped up. Hard times call for humanity.
Speaking of humanity, we have to hold on to it. I’m still hearing/seeing shaming memes, targeting people who were not taking social-distancing seriously before the government conveyed it was serious. Sure, I’m pissed at people flipping the bird to social-distancing by partying on beaches, clogging hiking trails and parks, hosting neighborhood barbecues, playing pick-up basketball. By now, we all need to be taking it seriously, worldwide. But I don’t wish that they get the virus. I don’t wish that their older loved ones get it so they feel the pain. I want them to get ‘it’ – the revelation that they are not immune, that they can spread the virus and are contributing to the depletion of medical supplies and the strain on the medical community.
But shaming won’t help.
We can’t let the virus, and it’s collateral impact, erode our humanity. If you find yourself feeling anger, rage, fear, worry, do one thing today to negate that. Reach out to someone you’re separated from – with a text, e-card, email, video-call. Reassure them, support them, share fond memories, laugh, tell them how much you love them.
Stay healthy. ❤